Me and my, LD girlfriend actually, met online as roleplayers! Our characters eventually got together which is when we started talking more OOC. She was really nice and eventually She told me she was a Lesbian. And wow I was really happy (I’m a, girl by the way u v u) so we just started talking more and more and late one night she just kind of forced it out of me to tell her I liked her hahaha, so after a few moments of silence she asked if we wanted to go out! In about 23 day we’ll have been together for 5 months, and it has been a rocky road but with the help of friends everything turns out ok in the end u v u. My dad is making me work with him during the summer(even though i’m more or less underaged and his job is really bad for my back and stuff) and he’ll be paying me $100 a day, so about two or so weeks of working maybe I could go visit her for a week or so! We’ve already been making plans and i’m really set on doing this!
Make a cute video. Add your thoughts, cute pictures of the two of you, whatever you can think of. Don’t make it too long, though, because you have to keep it interesting. This is what I did for my babe:) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wIyS2QvrqpE
Me and my LD boyfriend have been together for almost three months (but we’ve known each other for a little longer), and the last couple of weeks I’ve been questing whether or not if we were going anywhere. He lives across the atlantic ocean, and we both can’t afford to see each other. So every day, my hope of ever seeing him is twiddling away.
The other day I was talking to an old fling I had, and what ever feelings I had for this guy was for some reason still there.. but after we talked and he had to go, I pictured myself with this guy, and it didn’t feel right. Actually, talking to him, even though we were just talking like old friends, made me feel weird.
It was after that, that I realized I really don’t want to be with anyone else other than my boyfriend. And even if we live so far away from each other, he’s too important to me to consider other guys. That I rather wait years to see him, than be with anyone else.
I have been in a LDR with the girl OF MY DREAMS for 3 months now. We meet for the first time in 40 days, and we could not be more excited. I will stay for 5 days. But I know I won’t want to leave her side ever again!!!
I met the girl of my dreams about a year and a half ago. We started dating and I finally proposed to her last Christmas and she said yes. Unfortunately we have been doomed to be apart from each other most of our relationship. We met during the spring semester of college. We met at work and eventually started dating. In the summer however I had to go to basic training as I had just enlisted into the National Guard. After only dating about 4 months, we had been split from each other for 4 months while I trained. The only contact I had was a letter or 2 every week. I get back and we are reunited only for family complications to happen with her. She chose to move back home while I was still in school. Only a 2 hours drive, but with my school and military duties and her full time job, we had a hard time seeing each other. I finished school and now its the summer. We still live apart because of her job and my job. Unfortunately we only get to see each other about once a week. We plan to get married within 2 years but it can be difficult to plan the wedding when you cannot visit locations or prepare when you don’t see the one you love. I only worry now because I have heard rumors we might deploy within the year and that I may have to be away from the woman I love even longer.
i’ve loved this kid ever since freshman year. he was a sophomore & all i wanted was to be his & make him happy. i did everything i could to make him love me, even though it hurt me & changed me in ways that can’t be fixed. at some points, it seemed like a lost cause & sometimes he would straight up tell me he didn’t want me the way i wanted him. but i kept fighting & fighting. eventually, through my persistence, we became friends. we got to know each other & two years later, he fell in love with me. the past three months with this kid have been the most happiest months of my life. my freshman dream finally came true. he graduated last week & he’ll be leaving me for college soon. yeah, we haven’t gone through this long distance thing yet but we’ve talked abt it a lot. he says “babe, it’s just a year” but we both know that sht happens. but even though we might lose touch & what not, we’ll never stop loving each other. our love’s got nothing on these 395 miles(;
Blue and I have been together for a year and two months, I wouldn’t say it was easy, because it wasn’t. Fortunately, unlike the other couples, we live in the same country, but she’s 2-4 hours away from me. Two hours away from her school, and four hours away form her house.
We don’t often see each other, because transportation fee is also not a joke for me who’s still in College. Our relationship have been hard for the first few months, since we don’t get to see each other, we always fight over small things. I’ve been stubborn and prideful when it comes to her.. My pride, it almost broke us.. I would always blame her and things, but I’m very thankful she still stayed even if her friends told her to leave me..
It was then when I thought about everything, I changed for good. I thought, maybe it’s time for me to show her how genuine my feelings are for her. A new me that she deserves. I guess it’s what makes us stronger now.
Here’s a lesson I learned. If you fight, think and talk about the problem. It would solve them, and even save a relationship. “Distance” is just a shit. Distance is what makes you two more understanding and it tests your trust on each other. You don’t know, maybe after a year or a few months, you two would see each other. Waiting sucks, yes, but if you would take it seriously, the reward is really awesome :) Me and my girlfriend just met on tumblr and I had to wait for the right time where I could actually confess my feelings. Just wait and you’ll see :)
Goodluck on other couples :) And to us too! ♥
I just made a tumblr for both of us (crayoncouple.tumblr.com) I made it earlier :D
I’m Norwegian and was the happiest girl alive being together with an Italian guy. I loved him and he truly loved me. We met last summer and fell for each other at first sight. It was true love, we both knew. While he was back in Italy I was trying to continue living my life in Norway.. It was impossible. I was working hard with school and he was busy with soccer. I was going to apply to a college in Wales, but it turned out they had the same college 20 minutes away from where he lived. While not chatting or skyping with him he was going through my mind. I promised myself I would try, try to continue to love him, try to be positive though the distance was so huge. After weeks and weeks missing him, he confessed his love to me, and short after he turned out to be my boyfriend. I promised him to apply to the college near him, we were both so happy that in 2 years we would live 20 minutes away from each other, not 5 hours with plane. But months after months loving each other, I was starting to get depressed. Lonely. We both knew we wouldn’t meet each other before summer 2012. 1 year, 365 days and thousands of minutes without him. How could it possible work? I broke up with him after not seeing him in over six months. And at that point it felt right. I was sick of crying myself to sleep to often, trying to live a normal teenage life. I couldn’t handle it, and I told him I’d lost my feelings. He tried and tried to get me back and change my mind. I told him to let me be, let me go. He did.
I have a new boyfriend now. I love him, but I’ll never forget my Italian honeybun. We havent spoken in 4 months, but you still mean the world to me. And I’m still applying, I promised you.
And to all of you long distance couples, stay strong though it may seem impossible at times. It will be worth it! The pain you’re feeling apart from eachother can’t be compered to the feeling of missing him/her, knowing you lost it cause you felt lonely. You will never forget him/her, cause this love is so special. You will constantly be reminded of them because of the memories you built together. You will constantly be wondering of what they’re doing. You might be over them, they might be over you. But there’s not a chance that you’ll forget each other. My fingers are crossed for all of you! This is the strongest love.
my friend met some guys at a hotel in Orlando because they were there for a baseball tournament and she came back and used my phone to text one of them. he didnt answer til after she left and i didnt mean to start talking to him but now, I am so glad i did. we started to talk more and more and realized that we are perfect for each other. we loved eachother no matter the distance but knew we wouldnt be able to see eachother any time soon. we didnt want to keep our lives on hold so we said we could just be good friends and allow eachother to date. both of us got in relationships round the same time but we still talked as always. IT SUCKED! i get jealous and miss him way to much. then we were both single again and everything was ok til he got his phone and everything taken away for 6 months. hardest months of my life. after tht things were okay again but we just started drifting apart and it sucks , i really miss how things were before. now he has a girlfriend and im here hating my life just wanting to be his instead . trying to see him this summer but ive learned not to get my hopes up. knowing him for 2 years now and still not seeing him is not fun at all. ive realized not to hope to much at all anymore because i dont like getting hurt but i really want to be able to work things out and spend my life with him.
We have only been going out for 8 days and to be that’s a lot. We don’t go to school together we are just facebook friends and we go out. Well he doesn’t like texting so he doesn’t text, he barley gets on facebook or twitter we when we do talk it’s me usually making the conversation. It seems like he isn’t ready for a relationship because he still acts like a child and doesn’t have time for me. Yesterday he told me we would text me in the morning and it wasn’t till 4pm yesterday when he messaged me on facebook and told me he forgot he was watching recordings of basketball games. /: I think it’s time for him to either change or to break-up What should I do though? I am really struggling, considering the fact that everybody at my school knows him and he hangs with them every weekend but says he is too busy for me. /: Help?
Caroline (me), 20 years old, west of France.
Larry (him), 22 years old, Paris, France.
300 miles/600km away.
We know each other for a year now, and we decided to be together on the 28th of August. I loved him since the begining of July, and he takes him 3 long months to decide to be with me. I am so happy to be with him, he proposed me in March, so we are getting married. This is only for 10 months that we are together, but we are convinced that we are meant to each other. I am going to live with him in Paris in September, to study. I visit him every holidays, and everytime I’m in the train, I keep counting hours left to see him (I have 4h30 between my town and Paris by train) and when I get off the train I am so happy to see him. I met him on a forum about a game we played, and the begining of our relationship wasn’t that easy at all. I was so disapointed of love, and he learnt to me what love is. He has done a lot for me, I know he is the man of my life, my prince, and I am the luckiest girl on earth to have him. He is mine, and he is going to be forever mine, and I am going to be forever his. We have to go through a lot of difficulties right now and for a long time on, but it is totally worth it. I can’t wait to get my final exam and to finally live with my prince in Paris. I love you, Larry, and the tears are falling from my eyes now. Because I am so happy to finally have found my other half. I thought this day was never going to happen.
I love you Larry, my prince, my husband, my other half, my eternity, my everything. I love you.
This is me and my girlfriend. Please forgive my goofy smile but that’s just how I get around her hahaha. We’ve been together for about four months now. We had originally met in a chat room for a role playing group and right off the bat we got along great. I had really started to like her a lot but was skeptical to tell her how I felt because she lives across the country. I’m not new to being in a long distance relationship, but I didn’t think she would go for it when she could have any guy she wants close by. After about a month of constantly texting each other, she had finally decided to admit to me that she liked me. I was caught completely off guard which I still kick myself for because looking back I definitely should’ve seen all of the signs she was giving me. Once we had decided to make it official, she started to save money and eventually bought a laptop just for the purpose of getting on camera with me. I myself have about $1,500 saved up and the plan is to visit her for the fist time around the end of July or early August. Until I have the funds necessary, we’ve been on camera with each other every night, are constantly talking to each other whether through texting or phone calls and I also write her love letters each night after she goes to bed just so that she has an “I love you” from me to wake up to in the morning. Yes, it’s difficult at times not being able to hug, kiss or touch her but this is by far the happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I wouldn’t trade this relationship for any other, no matter the distance.
We met on twitter. Started dating right away and we were forced to break up a month later (I’m 13 and she just turned 15. My mom didn’t approve of me dating someone on twitter.) Four months later, we started dating again and we realized… we love each other. Yes some people may think we’re naive, but we’re not. We have dated now for 7 months and we’re happier than ever! We talk once a week on the phone (while I’m in therapy) and we talk every single day! I love her so much. She means everything to me! I know that even though I’m in Chicago and she’s in Hardford, one day, there won’t be a day where we aren’t together!
